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Business Owners Offer
"Been There" Advice on What It Takes to Change Course:
Part 3 of 3
By Valerie Young
If you're thinking about becoming your own boss,
learning from small business owners is one of the best ways to learn the ropes.
In this last of this three part series of tips, you'll hear from four more of
the inspiring entrepreneurs who so generously agreed to speak to the
participants at the recent Work at What You Love workshop.
Get By With a Little Help from
Your Friends
Everyone likes to talk about the "starving artist."
While it may not always be easy to turn your creative pursuits into income,
working artist Bonnie Druschel is living proof that it is possible. But it
wasn't always easy. At her lowest moments – those times when she'd say to
herself, "This will never work" or "Who do you think you are?" Bonnie says her
husband Tom was always there to cheer her on. And when she didn't have the money
to travel to New York to attend her first art licensing trade show, it was her
best friend Ann who stepped forward to lend her the money.
Then there's former British merchant marine Ed Cothey.
After he fell ill, his mother-in-law gave him his first computer so he'd have
something to do while he was recovering. This small gesture of support launched
his first small business venture as a website designer. One thing led to
another. Because the support he received had spawned his entrepreneurial spirit,
a casual visit to a llama farm awoke in Ed an interest in weaving which
ultimately led him to his current career as a weaver and fiber farm owner.
Former nursing home administrator Francis Mosea's life
also changed largely as a result of the support of family and friends. But he
didn't always welcome this support. It began with his wife telling him he was
grinding my teeth at night. Despite this and other signs that his high stress
job was taking its toll, he refused to listen to his body.
Then friends began urging him to sell his black eyed pea
bean cakes, a delicacy he'd learned how to make from his mother back in Nigeria.
But Francis says, "I was still firmly entrenched in my comfort zone." So he'd
roll his eyes and remind his supporters that he was after all an executive – not
a cook. Looking back, Francis realizes that wearing a suit and tie and having
reached a certain level of success meant a lot to him because, as a Black man in
America, he'd experienced first hand others making assumptions about who or what
he was, most of which were not positive.
Then 911 happened. If it were not for a fussy daughter
making his brother late for his job at the World Trade Center, Francis says his
brother probably wouldn't be here today. It was this wake up call that got
Francis to really listen to his wife, his friends, members of his church, his
body, and his heart. In just a few short years, Francis has been able to
assemble an impressive list of accounts with restaurants, gourmet shops, grocery
stores, and colleges throughout New England. Today, Francis tells would-be
business owners that "sometimes the best ideas are right in front of you. If,"
he adds, "you're willing to step outside your comfort zone."
Small is Beautiful or the Great Time vs. Money Debate
Potter Linda Siska likes to keep things simple. She
doesn't even own a computer and only recently got an answering machine. "It's
hard to stay small," says Linda, "because when you do, the prevailing assumption
is that you're not successful." But, then again, that all depends on your
definition of "success."
Despite pressure from friends, customers, store owners,
and many of her fellow craftspeople to get a website, professional potter Linda
resists. It's not like she doesn't know she could earn more money if people
could order online. But to Linda, money is not the most important thing.
A guiding principle central to her life is what she
calls minimalism. By leading a life of low consumption, by for example, joining
a local food coop, repairing broken items rather than tossing them, and buying
many things used rather than new – she and her partner Waino, a dairy farm hand
and active conservationist, are able to keep their expenses low and their
enjoyment of life high. It's not about being miserly. In fact, when you measure
their level of contentment, Linda and Waino live one of the richest lives of
anyone I know.
By intentionally keeping her business small and avoiding
the kind of time commitment that a website and staying on top of the onslaught
of email requires, Linda gets to do things she enjoys. One of these passions is
gardening. Each spring, Linda plants an enormous vegetable garden. The fruits of
her labor go a long way in providing her and Waino food for much of the winter.
Rather than squeeze in her planting each May, Linda made the decision a few
years ago that she'd give herself a full three weeks off to devote entirely to
getting her garden in. When was the last time you were able to take three weeks
off for a labor of love?
Not only does she take off most of May, but since she's
her own boss, Linda also takes the entire months of August and January as well.
During her summer break, you'll find her reading, swimming, hiking, and relaxing
at a secluded lake in Maine. In the winter, she spends her days cross country
skiing and getting caught up on household projects after putting in a busy fall
season stocking up pots for sale during the holidays.
Francis Mosea also thinks small is beautiful. He could
distribute his Nigerian black bean cakes nationally but he says, "Like Linda
said, there are benefits to staying small. I'm having too much fun making them
and marketing them myself."
Staying small also allows Francis to enjoy more time
with his family. For example, he took the entire month of August off for a three
week vacation in Florida, something he says he could never done when he was in
his corporate job, or if he decided to go big. "Life," says Francis, "is short."
Fail Forward
Bonnie Druschel is the first one to tell you that
success is rarely an overnight thing. She began by telling the audience that Dr.
Suess published his first book, And to Think That It Happened on Mulberry Street
in 1937 – after 27 rejections. Twenty years later, he published his two block
busters, Cat in the Hat and How The Grinch that Stole Christmas.
It didn't take Bonnie twenty years to succeed, but it
did take a while. In 1987 she was working as a secretary in a Fortune 500
company. Despite a wake up call reminding her of her true dream of being an
artist, it took another three years before she went back to school to earn her
BFA. When she graduated in 1994, Bonnie began making her own line of jewelry.
She landed some accounts but still it wasn't exactly what she wanted to be
doing. To earn money, she continued to do temp work before going to work for a
woman who designed inspirational posters. That's when she discovered the world
of art licensing.
Despite those inner voices saying, "I'm not good enough"
or "Who do you think you are?" Bonnie persisted. Today her business is thriving
due in large part to a licensing agreement she landed with a giftware
manufacturer. The company featured her artwork on a 33 piece
product line that included mugs, votives, magnets, key chains, gift bags, gift
totes, and jewelry pins, many of which feature inspirational sayings coined by
Bonnie. Bonnie talked about what it takes to get your artwork licensed and how,
one step at a time, she made her own dreams come true!
Bonnie Drushel passed on some great advice: Be patient,
start small, keep your day job and build your business on the side, and to keep
your momentum going, take one step every day. If I had to pick one message to
zero in on, it would be that pursing a dream is a process of trial and error. Or
as Bonnie put it, "It's okay to fail. Just be sure to fail forward."
Let those words sink in for a moment… fail forward.
Despite having talked and written about the topic of failure at length, I'd
never heard it put quite this way. The words have a certain kind of energy and
imagery to them – don't you think? What would it mean for you to fail forward?
Failing forward is all about forward movement. With action comes trial and
error, success and failure. As the Soichiro Honda, founder of Honda Motor
Corporation said, "Success is 99 percent failure." And look what happened with
his dream!
If you want to learn more about the world of art
licensing see this week's Featured Resource. To see Bonnie's new line of
inspiration jewelry (also a licensed product) visit her virtual studio at
SundazeStudios.com
About the Author
Off the beaten path career
counselor, Valerie Young, abandoned her corporate cubicle to become the Dreamer
in Residence at
ChangingCourse.com, offering free resources
to help you discover your life mission and live it. An expert on the Imposter
Syndrome, she's presented her How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone
Seems to Think You Are program to over 30,000 people.
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